Rena
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Post by Rena on Sept 9, 2009 17:14:54 GMT -5
Oh, and three times I sent Cody messages (twice in chat, once by PM) saying I'm sorry for offending him, even though I did not do it intentionaly, and for dragging on the argument, none of which he replied too, despite him having seen all three. "While I didn't intentionally offend you, after re-reading the topic I can see why you would be offended. I am sorry for insulting you and dragging on the argument beyond the point that was needed.
TRP"That is what you sent to me through PM, and I'm going to address now exactly why I didn't reply to you. Do I believe you actually understand why I would be offended? No. This topic only shows me that what you said in that PM is nothing like how you feel, as you continue to go against the PM you sent and are now blaming me once again, saying it's my fault and continuing to ignore the part where you 'see' why I could be upset. On top of that, no one in this universe has ever said something to someone and then gone back to the topic and then thought "You know what, I can see why they did that". No, Panther, you sent me that PM (and slathered on the compliments in chat, I might add) so that you wouldn't get in trouble if something bad came out of it. You attempted to cover your tracks quickly, and I commend you for that- but I will not believe your apology is heart-felt. The fact that a day after sending me the PM you are still going on about this incident only shows that the PM meant nothing. In fact Rena was posting irrelevant pictures of himself (which are intended to cause drama) Those pictures were originally intended to lighten the mood, for which (if you read afterwards) got a 'lol' out of Panther, but yet the argument continued. I have used those pictures before and they were NEVER used to cause drama or to fan the flames. Perhaps you should read all comments and the effect of those comments afterwards before you begin to point fingers. I'm 14 and have a nice set of pubes. Cody said I was 12 with none. That for one is an inacuracy. Seriously though, I was telling it like it was, Cody acts feminie, not masculin so he has no right to call me feminine, especialy with a name like Queen of Fresh thanks. Actually, I implied you had none. Also, I never called you feminine. I told you to act like a man since as of that moment you were acting like a child. In no way was I using this as a feminine/masculine thing, as I am one who believes that gender roles should be abolished. To be fair, Cody left himself wide open to that one. I mean, yes, you can say it's offensive, but he DID pretend to be a girl, DOES RP a girl, call himself the queen of fresh, etc, clearly is very feminine, so IMO he just left himself wide open when he told somebody else to be a man. Panther made a pretty good retort there, that IMO was called for. So he called Cody a girl, Cody called him an annoying little kid first. So yeah, I dont see why he should be punished (if he was.) Or why everybody should be on his back. I mean, I think Cody is more in the wrong here, if I had to choose one to be wrong. This is probably the most uneducated comment I have ever seen in my entire run in ACW. This will actually be my last comment and this will also be used as my conclusion. Listen up. I posted those pictures to lighten the mood, and it did for a millisecond before the fighting continued to go on. Then, thankfully, Rep and Panther began to talk civilly about TNA. HOWEVER, Panther than made a post after which just continued their pointless fight. At this point, I was fed up. I was annoyed that when civility had just befallen onto the topic, Panther just ripped it up and went savage to just continue a pointless argument. So, I basically told him to grow up. I DID NOT call him annoying, like Freeman suggested (maybe you should go re-read things before stating your opinions), I simply told him to grow up and as such I used his young age and lack of hair at such an age to emphasize this. He had acted like a complete child by taking a now civil chat back to a shit one, and so I told him to grow up. Could I have been more tactful? Perhaps, but I have made similar comments in my stay in ACW that have NEVER warranted this kind of response. He took my act like a man comment and turned it from my comment on that he was a child and needed to grow up, and decided to use it against me as if it's ironic because I'm feminine. This was completely uncalled for as he twisted my words against me in an entire direction. People who are immature and called children and can grow up from this. I can't just wake up and not be feminine (which CP once thought, but that's for another day for another hilarious story), and so his comment was more uncalled for than mine was. Freeman, let's get to you. Your comment completely disgusted me. Not only did you suggest that because I act feminine and RP as one I deserve what I got, you also perpetuate my greatest fears when I joined in 2004. The reason, though many of you don't know, that I joined and pretended to be female is because I was warned that ACW was homophobic and that I wouldn't be welcomed well in ACW and made fun of. So, I joined a girl. Then I got to know everyone and eventually decided to tell everyone I was a man, but I was still afraid that because of my sexuality and my feminine nature, I would be teased and such because of it. Now, it's 2009 and for the first time since I joined in 2004, someone made all those fears come true and threw everything that I am back at my face because I simply called him a child. This only shows me what I have been trying to ignore for a few years now. ACW is definitely not what it used to be, and it's slowly getting worse. Not only yesterday, I have to log on knowing that some person has thrown my femininity and (IMO) my sexuality in my face, I am now logging on today to see people saying that because I act the way I do, I welcomed what was said to me. I never expected that a place I once loved to be apart of, I am now logging on wondering what new kid is going to say to me if I comment on something they're doing wrong. I refuse to live this way, and I can't believe some of you would do that to me. This is my last paragraph. There are FOUR pages of comments on the fight between Panther and I and I HAVE NOT EVEN POSTED anything. I keep seeing comments upon comments of people saying 'cody is in the wrong', etc. When I am not even fueling this current argument. Rep, although you may hate him, has today defended my honor without me asking him to, and for that today he is more of a human being than any of you have been today. I am disgusted in the inhumane nature of ACW currently, and it only saddens me that you all refuse to see it.
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Post by The Red Panther on Sept 9, 2009 17:15:20 GMT -5
Again, you don't say why, you just go you're an idiot. Even so, it still has NOTHING to do with the origional topic, but WE, I have time to kill arguing with you. You always do this, crack out the personal insults for no reason. As can be seen, you said I was lieing with no proof. Have fun in failvilla. You lied about the Cody shit... it's a fact. Stop backtracking like a little girl. Freeman needs to take his WWE terminology out of this topic. How am I backtracking? I didn't lie about it, you are fucking paranoid. What proof do you have? None. You are a broken record. YOU LIED YOU LIED YOU LIED YOU LIED A bit boring now, especialy when I have pointed out I have not lied and you have no proof I have. So nope, it's not a fact, it is a lie. In the words of some guy "You do these mental gymnastics to make yourself belive this stuff" or something. I have this mental image of an overweight unemployed guy laying in the fetal position with he lied painted on his face going "he lied to us. He lied about the precious!". It is not too far-fetched looking at what you are typing.
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Post by rep on Sept 9, 2009 17:22:47 GMT -5
You lied about the Cody shit... it's a fact. Stop backtracking like a little girl. Freeman needs to take his WWE terminology out of this topic. How am I backtracking? I didn't lie about it, you are fucking paranoid. What proof do you have? None. You are a broken record. YOU LIED YOU LIED YOU LIED YOU LIED A bit boring now, especialy when I have pointed out I have not lied and you have no proof I have. So nope, it's not a fact, it is a lie. In the words of some guy "You do these mental gymnastics to make yourself belive this stuff" or something. I have this mental image of an overweight unemployed guy laying in the fetal position with he lied painted on his face going "he lied to us. He lied about the precious!". It is not too far-fetched looking at what you are typing. Seeing as I'm 190 lbs and have a job... you're not only a liar, but you're wrong. When I think of you, I see a little british schoolboy who doesn't know what he's talking about. Spot on! And Cody pretty much just murdered you. How does it feel to be destroyed by "such a feminine man?"
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Post by The Red Panther on Sept 9, 2009 17:38:49 GMT -5
Note: This is directed at Cody's big post, since some may have posted after I started typing.
What is different between my post and the PM? Fuck all. The only difference is that in the PM I said I can see why you would be offended on re-read. And sorry, but it is your fault. You had a right to be offended, you had no right to have a massive stress about it and rage at me because YOU mis-interpreted something I wrote. I thought you were one of the smartest people in ACW, which is why I just posted two words, because I thought "Rena will understand I'm saying he is feminine". If I wanted to get out of any trouble, why would I have pmd you and only made a topic after you didn't reply? Also, by slathering in complements, do you mean I was being nice in an effort to let you know I don't hate you? because that is what I was doing. Cody, of everybody in ACW, you are one of the people I would of least liked to get in an argument with, because you are nice to others. That is why I was being nice too you.
The PM didn't mean nothing, it was a message to tell you "I'm sorry you thought I meant that", because despite what Rep is saying, I never meant it as a homophobic comment. This is seriously pissing me off, which is why I'm still on ACW at 11:30 when I have to get up at 7, I hate having people think I'm some sort of horrible person because I said something which got out of hand. I never wanted to make all these fears come true, I wanted to just post a light comeback sort of thing.
I'm not going to make any comments on the rest, since it was not directed at me. However the thing with CP saying you could not be gay is not the same. Acting feminine is a choice, being gay is not, I understand that. I honestly just wish I could go back and not click post, because one post should never cause this much anger, stress and rage. Sorry, to ACW overall.
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Post by The Red Panther on Sept 9, 2009 17:41:36 GMT -5
How am I backtracking? I didn't lie about it, you are fucking paranoid. What proof do you have? None. You are a broken record. YOU LIED YOU LIED YOU LIED YOU LIED A bit boring now, especialy when I have pointed out I have not lied and you have no proof I have. So nope, it's not a fact, it is a lie. In the words of some guy "You do these mental gymnastics to make yourself belive this stuff" or something. I have this mental image of an overweight unemployed guy laying in the fetal position with he lied painted on his face going "he lied to us. He lied about the precious!". It is not too far-fetched looking at what you are typing. Seeing as I'm 190 lbs and have a job... you're not only a liar, but you're wrong. When I think of you, I see a little british schoolboy who doesn't know what he's talking about. Spot on! And Cody pretty much just murdered you. How does it feel to be destroyed by "such a feminine man?" You have a job? Obviesly you don't do it well, since you were on all day during my holidays. You got two of four, I'm British and I'm at school. However I'm quite a decent height and I know what I am talking about. Doesn't really make much sense, seeing how I'm still alive.
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Post by rep on Sept 9, 2009 17:43:22 GMT -5
Acting feminine is not a choice... if that's your personality, you don't choose it. Just like sexuality is not a choice, you can't choose who you are.
Now I get why you are siding with CP...
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Rena
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Post by Rena on Sept 9, 2009 17:44:53 GMT -5
Acting feminine is a choice, being gay is not, I understand that. If I could stop being feminine and began to act like society's view of he perfect man, I would have done that already to save myself from bullshit like this. But I can't, and that's where this comment is wrong. Being feminine is a part of who I am and it has always been who I am, and I can't just shut it off.
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Post by rep on Sept 9, 2009 17:45:36 GMT -5
Seeing as I'm 190 lbs and have a job... you're not only a liar, but you're wrong. When I think of you, I see a little british schoolboy who doesn't know what he's talking about. Spot on! And Cody pretty much just murdered you. How does it feel to be destroyed by "such a feminine man?" You have a job? Obviesly you don't do it well, since you were on all day during my holidays. You got two of four, I'm British and I'm at school. However I'm quite a decent height and I know what I am talking about. Doesn't really make much sense, seeing how I'm still alive. Fuck "your" holidays... you don't know what my hours are... there you go again talking before thinking. You really DON'T know what you're talking about though, schoolboy. Run along toddler, don't drop your books!
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Post by The Red Panther on Sept 9, 2009 17:46:44 GMT -5
Acting feminine is a choice, being gay is not, I understand that. If I could stop being feminine and began to act like society's view of he perfect man, I would have done that already to save myself from bullshit like this. But I can't, and that's where this comment is wrong. Being feminine is a part of who I am and it has always been who I am, and I can't just shut it off. I can't really come back with much more than I never knew it wasn't a choice. Rep, please take your five year old attempts to enrage me somewere else.
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Post by rep on Sept 9, 2009 17:47:14 GMT -5
Looks like it worked
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Post by The Red Panther on Sept 9, 2009 17:50:03 GMT -5
You have a job? Obviesly you don't do it well, since you were on all day during my holidays. You got two of four, I'm British and I'm at school. However I'm quite a decent height and I know what I am talking about. Doesn't really make much sense, seeing how I'm still alive. Fuck "your" holidays... you don't know what my hours are... there you go again talking before thinking. You really DON'T know what you're talking about though, schoolboy. Run along toddler, don't drop your books! Oh my, an age joke. Look how fucking origional you are! It obviesly shows that because I am a few years younger than you you are right. Oh wait, no. You don't just go "I'm older your wrong", it makes you seem like more of a dumbass. Plus the fact a 14 year old is more inteligent than you must be a real bummer, aye?
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Post by The Red Panther on Sept 9, 2009 17:50:43 GMT -5
Looks like it worked Can't you feel my rage.
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Post by worldbreaker on Sept 9, 2009 18:06:22 GMT -5
I think Jin should have a partner called the Black Panther.
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Post by The Red Panther on Sept 9, 2009 18:08:40 GMT -5
Read the profle. That was his dad >__> Eh, it could have been worse.
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Post by worldbreaker on Sept 9, 2009 18:10:23 GMT -5
Hey brothers, I sure want to hit start IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!
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